Christian Louboutin may have put it best, remarking:
“Shoes
transform your body language and attitude. They lift you physically and
emotionally.”
While this is a wonderful thing to say in the business of selling
designer footwear, I’m sure we can all attest to how true it really is.
Unfortunately, within the trans-community many experience great anxiety over
finding shoes that flatter, especially with a shoe size most likely larger than
that of the average woman. There is a common emphasis on creating the look of
smaller feet, in any way possible.
Women’s shoe sizes typically run 1 to 2 sizes larger than
Men’s. For starters, just add to your male shoe size, or even better, just get
measured. Though not petite, I’m lucky enough to be a size 10 shoe which puts
me at the upper edge of readily available, stylish shoes. To add to the
difficulty of minimizing foot size, the selection of shoes larger than a size
10 in most stores is typically very scarce if existent at all (because
transitioning needs more challenges, right?). As with any area of style, there
are ways we can cope with this, allowing us to go from feeling like clunky
scuba flippers to gracefully sleek high heels!
I know what you’re thinking… “This isn’t rocket science
Kayci, there is an easy solution to solve this dilemma!” and you are totally
correct, brilliant! The easiest way to make your feet appear smaller is to
favor wearing shoes with heels over flat-soles. As we talked about in previous
posts, heels shorten the horizontal length of your foot and add that length to
the line of your leg… the higher the heel, the shorter your foot, it’s like
magic! (or trigonometry if you’re of a more mathematical mind).
Problem solved right? …. Not quite, at least not to my
satisfaction. I’m a believer that it is impractical to wear exclusively heels,
probably a statement much to the chagrin of parts of the trans community.
Wearing different types of heels (anything that elevates the foot) such as
wedges or others with a wider heel itself will be more comfortable and better
options for everyday use since they distribute your weight more evenly. Let’s
explore what other options we have and also take a look at ways we can maximize
the flattering magic of heels.
Whether wearing heels or not, we want to break up the line
of the foot as much as possible to create the appearance of a smaller foot.
This works for both width and length.
Let’s look at
the lines of the foot:
As you can see from the pictures, the Length and Width lines
have been drawn in. I chose to put the length from the ankle rather than the
back of the foot since that is how it is seen from above, however it really doesn’t matter, the idea would be the same.
I picked these cute red flats as a good place to start for this example because
they are very simple and do not go above and beyond to flatter my foot.
Let’s discuss the Length line first, since that’s what we
are primarily worried about. The shape of the toe of a shoe is the
first thing we should consider. These flats have a nice rounded toe which does not
add any extra length, however many styles of shoes have pointed toes which
literally add extra inches to that length line. Not something we want. Other styles include peep or
open toe, square toe and almond shaped to name a few (all pretty self
explanatory). Try to avoid wearing toe styles that add length to your foot,
simple enough.
Next we can consider the vamp and upper section of a shoe.
The variety of styles and options is wonderfully diverse here and this is where
we can help give the appearance of shortening that length. The goal should
always be to break up the line to make it look shorter… this can be done with
straps and other shoe details. As a general rule the more skin you expose, the
larger your foot will appear (nothing to break that length line!). A simple
example of breaking things up is a Mary Jane style, one strap spanning the top
of the foot, and essentially cutting that length line in half. Take a look:
Much like the tank top vs the spaghetti strap camisole from the necklines
post, be careful with thin, tiny straps. When framed against a large foot,
they’ll only contrast it, making things look bigger. Try to find straps on the
wider side.
All the same principles apply to foot width as do to the
length. By the same logic, a peep-toe would be better than a sandal style that
exposes all of your toes since the “peep-hole” breaks up the width line across
your toes. I stick to the general rule, no more than 3 toes showing maximum. Likewise a strap or detail running through the width line will serve
to break it up and make your foot appear thinner.
The last thing to consider when choosing the perfect pair of
shoes is the color. Darker colors are more flattering than lighter colors, so
aim for darker hues and avoid bright, flashy or pastel colors. Don’t feel like you
need to limit yourself to only black, just stick to darker shades of your
favorite colors.
To summarize these tricks, let’s look at an example of most
of these in action:
Note how the length and width lines are broken up for an overall flattering style.
Our important lessons from this post:
- Wear a shoe that elevates your heel
- The more skin you expose, the larger your foot will appear.
- Avoid toe styles that add extra length
- Look for straps and other details that break up the length and width lines
- Stick to darker colors
Ready to run out and buy some flattering shoes? Unsure where
to go? Try these places:
Online:
Barefoot Tess: Online store carrying only sizes 10-15
Zappos: Sell all sizes, generally have a wide selection
In stores try:
DSW or Nordstrom Rack, they tend to have
good prices and a wide range of sizes.
Have you seen the new collection from Upper Street by Nicole Smallwood,uber flattering styles in large sizes http://www.upperstreet.com/ready-to-wear/large-shoe-collection/
ReplyDeleteAlso check out www.jacquelined.com.au, they are based in Australia and have super stylish shoes in the larger sizes!
ReplyDelete